An Inconvenient Truth

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I have a plan of military-esque precision to ensure that all the baking, preparing and cleaning gets done before Saturday for the girls’ birthday bash.

I have to stick to schedule or there is no way anything will get done. So I’ve planned it all out. The problem with cleaning and tidying a house with two little people in it is that as soon as you get through one room they’ve messed it up again. So I knew the only way the place was going to be in a decent state by Saturday was if I not only clean and tidied but then maintained the areas that I’d already done so the whole thing didn’t go to shit. A smart woman would say this is what normal people do ALL THE TIME which is why their houses are tidy and mine looks like there should be someone Twister style yelling ‘Debris!’ I am not a smart woman.

I have a whiteboard full of baking, preparing and cleaning tasks and I anticipated that this would be a TV week for the girls to help me get everything done. So it was somewhat surprising to find that I didn’t need my old reliable TV babysitter that much this week. They have been happily playing together. Delighting in one another’s company. Riley has been inventing games that Piper loves and I can hear her shrieky giggles all through the house. And there has even been alone play. A kind of play that has been sorely missed around these parts. SORELY MISSED.

And I might not be a smart woman, but I know this isn’t some grandly convenient coincidence.

To cope with my workload this week I have severely reduced my computer time and my online time. I’m not on my phone that much, I’m on twitter hardly at all and I flit in and out of facebook occasionally. But for the most part of the day I am playing or cleaning or tidying or baking or running errands. I am not sitting at the computer. I have about 15 emails I have flagged for follow up out of the hundreds in my inbox.

And although I know part of the transformation with my babies this week is that they are getting older. Piper is making noises that sound like talking. She plays copying games. She adores her sister and lights up whenever she catches her attention. Riley is seeing her as more of a source of amusement than of annoyance. Every now and then she stops worrying about her things and her tidal wave of love for Piper flows out. And Riley is loving having a captive audience.

But I know a big part of why this week has been so easy, so effortless as a parent is because I’m more available away from the computer, more engaged. I don’t need to concentrate as much, I don’t need space. I’m just doing my thing and they are doing theirs.

Wholly and completely inconvenient.

What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

‘What do you want to be when you grow up?’ is the question of the moment.Riley says she wants to be a Fire Engine Rescuer. I’m not sure if she wants to a person or an actual fire engine.

But she also wants to know what I want to be and what Mr Goog wants to be. The fact that she hasn’t twigged that we are both already grown up is either a great compliment or a searing comment on the nature of our lack of maturity. But as always, I’ll take the compliment and ignore the other.

Mr Goog says he wants to be a pilot. He skips over the part where that dream was trampled by the Air Force when he made it through all of their testing (a full day of it) and got turned down at the last hurdle because of a couple of school reports that said he could have applied himself more.

I say I want to be a writer. Occasionally getting paid for something I write is all kinds of awesome. So I guess I get to call myself a writer now. But the vast majority of the opportunities this blog has thrown my way isn’t in the writing arena it’s in social media work. Sometimes it’s hard to imagine that people pay me to be on twitter or facebook or pinterest. But they do. It’s pretty surreal. Even though sometimes it feels like I need a multiple personality to be in my personal social media and then switch to being in various other brands’ social media.

But the way this work has evolved over the last three years has me thinking about where I will take myself in the next three. So many ideas. So little time.

I am Greedy With My Community

I’ll be honest. The problem I have with social media is that I’m building a community away from my blog. And I don’t fancy spending hours and hours of time invested in building someone else’s platform. Sure there’s alot of mutual benefits there and you won’t see me abandoning twitter or facebook or even google plus (even though I forget about it regularly) any time soon. But any time I have the option of keeping people on my site I will. Because I’m greedy like that.
For a long while now I’ve been posting all my instagram photos to my Tumblr blog. Because I like having them all in one place where you can easily look through them all. Instagram doesn’t have this functionality as yet so it was an easy fix for me. But as I posted more and more photos (over 800 at last count) it started to annoy me that they landed on Tumblr or on Twitter or Facebook and not on my own site. Sure I can display them on my own site but when you click through it goes to somewhere else.

This is when the idea hit me. This may make me a genius or an idiot depending on how much you like the idea and how much time it actually took me to think of it. Assigning a subdomain to my tumblr blog which gives me the best of both worlds. All the traffic stays on my site but I have the ease of posting that tumblr affords.

You can check it out in all of its glory at iphoneography.goodgoogs.com

It’s pretty, isn’t it? I restrained myself and didn’t buy the $49 theme that I really fell in love with. And the geeky stats love within me is a bit taken with the fact that I can add my google analytics code to it and it forms part of my pageviews. I know, I am that much of a geek.

Recently I’ve been soaking up all the recent information about blogging I’ve received (at events and articles that I’ve stumbled across) and it’s a fine balance. On the one hand Facebook is probably where most of my potential readers are, on the other hand how much time do I invest in something that I have no real control over and essentially could be taken away at any time? Google Plus I consistently forget about but I can’t ignore the fact that the social network owned by the biggest search engine in the world and indexed by that search engine is going to have a pretty big impact.

I don’t know what all of that means (yet) but I still think that my plan to be greedy with my community is a good one.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cracking the StumbleUpon Code

It’s like the DaVinci Code, only it’s actually a mystery. The enigmatic nature of StumbleUpon tends to create people who use it religiously in the hope of those viral hits or people who abandon it entirely as a waste of time.
The biggest criticism I’ve heard about StumbleUpon is not about it’s inherent randomness but the fact that it’s traffic is not engaged. They flick on by, apparently. Hundreds of hits and no comments. Well, I’ll let you in on a little secret about comments. Some blogs naturally lend themselves to comments. Like Woogsworld. That place is like comment heaven. Because it’s so funny and witty and inclusive and welcoming. And people want to be a part of that. And even if you have nothing to say, you probably want to say something anyway. Disqus helps this along, but it would be the same if Mrs Woog was using the freaking archaic blogger comment system.

But some blogs aren’t comment heaven. And only on certain pillar posts will you realise that there is a far larger community attached to the blog than you previously realised. I feel that way about my blog. I get alot of comments, which I LOVE. But far more people read than comment, and often I hear people say that they feel out of place commenting because they are not a blogger or they just don’t have time. But it doesn’t mean they aren’t engaged. It just means they aren’t always visible.

And some of the features of StumbleUpon do breed engagement. If people accept posts to be emailed to them, then you can directly email people who follow you posts that they think you will find interesting. When people do this right and do it respectfully, it is awesome. I actually look forward to every StumbleUpon email I receive from Jessica Gottlieb because she always shares fascinating stuff. Just like how the StumbelUpon toolbar gives you the option of sharing not just on StumbleUpon but on other social networks as well.

But perhaps I’m getting ahead of myself.

First things first.

Sign Up. Sign up and create an actual profile – don’t scrimp in this area. The key to bigger traffic numbers is bigger followers. No one is going to follow you if you don’t look interesting. You wouldn’t be an egg on twitter so don’t be a sillouhette on StumbleUpon.

Start following people who interest you. And start sharing things that interest you. Not just your stuff. For every 1 post of yours you share you should be sharing 10 things from other people. I don’t always do this, but I should. Because it vastly improves your impact.

If you don’t download the StumbleUpon toolbar, you might as well not bother because the whole thing would be far too clunky to utilise. So do it.

If you want others to use the StumbleUpon toolbar as well, making it easier to thumbs up your posts and share on other networks you can use the StumbleUpon url shortener – su.pr which will also track clickthroughs and additional traffic you’ve been sent.

Certain categories are always going to do well – like things people really want – humour and bargains.

And after all of that, what are you left with? What’s the bottom line?

You are not going to see maximum impact by stumbling yourself, it’s much better if other people do it for you. But posts that I stumble can get an additional zero (yes, sometimes it’s zero) to 500 hits.

The problem with using su.pr as a shortener is that google analytics treats click throughs from su.pr (when you’ve shared on twitter and facebook) the same as organic StumbleUpon traffic so it’s hard for me to actually demonstrate how engaged/not engaged the stumbleupon traffic is. Which is why I’m thinking about ditching the shortener altogether.

In general su.pr and StumbleUpon traffic when lumped together do about 10% worse than the site average. So people stay on the page a little bit less and the bounce rate is a teensy bit higher. But that’s kind of to be expected when I’m sharing a post through facebook and twitter because people read the post and then go on their merry way.

Looking at a post that I got a whole lot of organic StumbleUpon traffic from it tells me a similar story. The stats are pretty average. Which means that StumbleUpon users are sticking around as long as anybody else. If I drill down to time spent on the page on any given day it tells me a very interesting story. It has days where there is zero time which basically means people are just flicking on by not looking at anything, and then there are a few peaks where all of a sudden the average time on the site is 7 minutes, then 10 minutes, then 30 minutes. Which says to me that sure there are a good proportion of people who flick through but every now and then I catch somebody’s surfing eye and they stick around. Which is my goal. To have people stick around long enough so I can lure them into my blogging web.

Is it worth it? Only if you have the time to put into it. And alot of people don’t have the time. But it also has other uses. Do what I do. If you want to be part of a social media network but you think gee I don’t have the time. Multi-task that social media network’s ass off. So if you are going to be on StumbleUpon use it as a bookmarking tool as well. Which you can then use to save all of the tasty bits of the internet you want to share on facebook or twitter. Don’t know what to write about or stuck for inspiration? Head over to StumbleUpon and stumble topics and see what pops up. You never know, given enough time it’s beautiful randomness might even grow on you.

P.S. Totally follow me on StumbleUpon.

The Difference is in the Planning

So a few weeks ago I said I’d try out this batch writing and planned posts situation. At first I said I’d give a week a try, but people suggested I give it a few weeks so I can find my groove. This is my third weekend of writing everything for the week. And I don’t think I could go back to writing on the fly, during the week.
I know. Who is this person? And where did haphazard Zoey go?

There were a couple of things that happened in the planning that I didn’t expect.

1) Not writing during the week is nice. I thought the daily writing was something that I’d miss. But I didn’t AT ALL. I will still write if I feel there’s something I want to get down and re-arrange posts to publish something if it comes up. But in general, having a period of time when I’m not writing is helpful. It allows ideas to develop. I can simmer on a post for awhile. It gets me out of the crisis management  of ‘what am I going to write tonight?’ And in general, I feel more inspired to write when I do write.

2) I take more photos. I suppose this is just to do with having more free time during the week. But this last week I took about 300 photos on the big camera alone. I think I just have the free head space for it, now that it’s not so crowded with all of the stuff I have to do.

And there were a few things that I did

1) The house is more clean. I am more able to get through all of the washing, cleaning, vacuuming and tidying because I’m not constantly trying to squeeze in writing.

2) I feel less stressed. This isn’t really about the blog, so much as it is me doing the bulk of my paid work on the weekend as well. Which means that during the week I don’t have to be ‘plugged in’ all the time.

3) I spend less time on Social Media. I kind of expected this. Usually when I’m trying to write something I’ll procrastinate by spending time on Facebook or Twitter. Without the need to get blogging stuff done, I procrastinate a little bit less. This is good and bad. On the one hand I feel a bit out of the loop when I have a few days of absence and it can be hard to get back into the swing of things. On the other hand, the time that I do spend on Social Media is far more intentional. I schedule my post promotion tweets for the week so I don’t have to even think about it. Facebook doesn’t allow me to schedule, so all of that has stayed manual.

I have a feeling that since I started this I’m getting less comments than I normally would. Probably because I’m not around on social media as much and I’m still catching up on my reader so I’m still getting back into commenting and catching up on everything.

The bottom line? I will most definitely be sticking with planning my posts. It gives me the best of both worlds. The ability to post as frequently as I would like on my blog and have a whole lot more time for myself and my family during the week. But really the biggest bonus has been that I have more free attention because I don’t have to be thinking about what I’m going to write anymore, or how I can squeeze an hour out of my day so I can write.

The Clouds are Talking


I’m a little late with my week-end wrap up. I blame nausea. And I may blame nausea for everything for about the next 4 weeks. Yesterday, all the munchkin wanted to do was go outside. At a certain point Josh asked her to come in because it was raining. Clearly oblivious to the fact that she loves the rain. So she went inside and got a parasol and then asked to go outside again. There she stayed until the thunder started and although I’m sticking with my ‘the clouds are talking’ story, I’m not sure she was buying it, she was still pretty scared.

This week’s edition of Behind the Red Curtain

Cheerleaders & Jocks

Jellybean Watch – Week 7 where I complained about my lack of morning sickness. Yeah, no longer a problem.

Is It Spring Yet? My wrap-up from last week. Yay! Perfect excuse to keep doing them

Being Unprepared where I talk about smoking, breastfeeding and pregnancy. I was really nervous about posting this and was mightily relieved that everyone was very supportive and didn’t yell at me.

Pyjama Sunday – you can never have too many of them.

Stuff I Stumbled

StumbleUpon, I persist, despite your mysterious nature. And the fact that stumbling myself doesn’t work, which I find supremely irritating. It’s like you don’t want me to be independent.

Cooking With Too Much Salt – Being Fat Online a really fascinating discussion on fat acceptance

Love That Shot – Hot Spot Member Spotlight This week Lynda of Daily Window was featured. I’ve learnt so much from her, she takes such inspirational and stunning photos and is so generous with her knowledge and time. So I was thrilled that she was featured!

Rosie’s Growing Snowpeas – iHappy Monday – I’m Pregnant A fellow TTC-er is pregnant! Head over and show her some love.

Mummy Time – Remember My Sooper Sekrit Bloggy Stuff Have you heard? An Australian Blogging Conference! Head over and check out all the details.

I Heart Faces – Interview with Writer and Photographer Karen Walrond Beautiful photos, just stunning.

Enquiring Minds

I loved this week’s question on FormSpring.

What are your favourite pair of shoes?

7 Tweets in 7 Days & Facebook Favourites

7 Tweets in 7 Days and Facebook Favourites will be back next week. When I have a hope of maybe including an update that doesn’t say either ‘I’m tired’ or ‘I have nausea’.

Be warned, I’m now with iPhone and have unleashed it on twitter. Follow me at your peril.

And remember, anyone can share anything on Facebook. My page is set up to show everyone’s updates on the wall, not just mine. (Yeah, I know that just screams lazy on my part, doesn’t it?)

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Is it Spring Yet?


After a week of freezing temperatures, it’s a surprise that I got anything done beyond hanging out in the shower and shivering in the corner. At least there are signs that Spring is on the way – such as the disturbingly fat magpies that seem to be developing some kind of battle strategy in my backyard.

This week’s edition of Behind the Red Curtain

Cheerleaders & Jocks

The popular kids this week were . . .

Begin By Being Personal – The launch of the carnival of personal blogging. Where I actually quoted a Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks movie. Yes, I’m that person.

57/365 – The Big Smoke – All about my girls weekend and why they need to deliver my iPhone sooner.

Jellybean Watch – Week 6 – on scans, morning sickness and the weirdness of Australian baby sizing.

Stuff I Stumbled

Confession. I have no idea how StumbleUpon works. None. It’s highly mysterious. Which perhaps adds to its allure, or maybe it’s just annoying.  But all of that aside, it’s a handy way for me to bookmark and share my favourite reads of the week. You can subscribe to StumbleUpon here, if it tickles your fancy.

Living Life as Me – The Bottom of the Well on getting stuck and what to do about it

Life in a Pink Fibro – Where Angels Fear to Tread on the big conversations we accidentally have with our children. I don’t envisage being any good at this.

Ah, the Possibilities! – Tomorrow, When the (Choc) War Began white chocolate IS chocolate.

Do I Really Wanna Blog? – Shape all about being able to look at your own shape without judgement.

Science @ Home – Making Butter I’m keen on any toddler activity that involves mixing but this one looked particularly fun (and tasty!)

Enquiring Minds

Not a single soul asked me a question on FormSpring last week, apart from a certain spam site who I won’t dignify by featuring here. So if you have a question – ask away! It can be silly, serious, geeky, goofy or anywhere in between.

7 Tweets in 7 Days

Obviously I tweet far more than once a day. But something appealed to me about a week in tweets without, you know, including all the actual drivel that I type during the week.

Facebook Favourites

And on my Facebook Page this week, it was all about planning and numbers. That’s control freak heaven.

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Behind the Red Curtain


I’ve been thinking about doing something like this for awhile – a weekly round up of the blog and social media stuff for the week. It might turn into a regular thing or it might fizzle out completely. Impossible to tell.

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The End of Surreal - on settling in to my pregnancy and not waiting for the other shoe to drop

Lines of Communication – on meltdowns and how a sad face can be just as beautiful as a happy one

JellyBean Watch – Week 5 – on pregnancy, vbacs and hospitals

Stuff I Stumbled

Ordinarily, this would be a list of all my favourite reads for the week but last week I didn’t really get to my reading. But it’s one of my favourite blogs and one of my favourite bloggers jumping into the quagmire of young women and body image

Scars and All

Enquiring Minds

I love that people can ask me questions, either annonymously or not. If you want to ask me a question head over to FormSpring

Last week, I  was asked two questions.

7 Tweets in 7 Days

Obviously I tweet far more than once a day. But something appealed to me about a week in tweets without, you know, including all the actual drivel that I type during the week.

Facebook Favourites

I love my facebook page and all the lovely people that inhabit it. Here are a couple of things that tickled their fancy this week.

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The Real Mummy Bloggers

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I have a girl crush on Kerri Sackville. There I said it. And if you haven’t checked out her movie series, you just haven’t lived. So when I heard that she’d been featured in a Sunday Life article (now posted online here) like a good little stalker I headed over for a read.

It was all about mummy bloggers. Which I guess I am. Atlhough I tend to consider myself as a personal blogger, I know everyone else in the universe would probably think of me as a mummy blogger. Because, seriously, how many photos of Riley can I possibly post?

In the interview, Kerri talks about two categories of mummy bloggers the brutally honest kind and the happy happy, joy joy kind. Although I do have lots of photos, and I have occasionally posted a photo or two of a cupcake, I hope I err on the side of brutally honest. In fact there’s a whole thread on the Australian Mummy Bloggers forum all about keeping it real. Note to self. Ease up on the photos of cupcakes. But less about me, self obsessed person and back to the article. I love a good supermarket nightmare story because it makes me feel less alone in my own supermarket meltdowns and my developing phobia of shopping alone. It’s no secret that I’ve tricked the husband into doing the shopping on the weekend, with Riley. Which means that I avoid the dreaded shopping and I get time to myself. I’m highly manipulative that way.

Of course, no article on mummy blogging would be complete with a few nay-sayers. Assuring us that they would trust ‘real people’ to give them advice and wouldn’t deign to read a blog because all their free time is spent on reading books and newspapers. Now I’m as big of a fan of books as you’re likely to come across and I’m certainly not anti-newspaper unless we’re talking about The Daily Telegraph. My favourite bumper sticker is “Is that true? Or did you read it in the Telegraph.”

I’m allergic to snobbery – I think it’s a sign of a weak mind. So I agree with my fellow bloggers including Kerri, Lana and Karen when they talk about the community that blogging creates. And I assure you, that we are quite real, as is the friendship, wisdom, support and above all else shared joy and unimaginable frustration. If we weren’t real, I’m pretty sure I would never have received this awesome coffee. And I definitely wouldn’t have all manner of lovelies hold my hand through my trying to conceive journey who have redefined the depths of understanding and empathy.

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Join the Campaign

If you follow me on Twitter, or do the Facebook thing, you’ve probably noticed me babbling on about the Smart Home Family.
It’s a project run in Australia by Energy Australia and Sydney Water to trial a home that is set up with energy efficient technology for a year and blog about it. You can read more about it here. I think it’s a pretty fantastic opportunity. And given that Josh is allergic to change, I was somewhat (pleasantly) surpirsed that he thought we should go for it. He’ll drive an electric car, while I attempt to control all of the appliances via iphone. A blog will allow everyone to share in the highs, lows and general hilarity.

In the interest of taking as creative approach as possible to this endeavour, I’ve started a facebook group – please join it!

And if you have a blog, I would be eternally grateful if you linked to this post.

You may notice me a little bit more absent in Good Goog parts while I work on our application. It’s due in on the 22nd of this month. So I’ll throw everything at it. Doing anything by halves is just not me.